Jenny McCarthy Reveals the 5 Traits That Made Donnie Wahlberg “The One”—You Won’t Believe What Sealed the Deal!

Jenny McCarthy and Donnie Wahlberg’s love story reads like something out of a romantic fairy tale, with fate playing a significant role in their Hollywood marriage. The couple, who began dating in 2013 and married in 2014, recently shared the secrets behind their lasting bond, with McCarthy revealing five key traits that “sealed the deal” for her in their relationship.

In an exclusive interview with Fox News Digital at the 2025 iHeartRadio Music Awards, McCarthy gushed about her connection with the Blue Bloods star, admitting their romance was “written in the stars.” The couple’s journey, as McCarthy put it, started with a psychic prediction—one that McCarthy believes set the stage for the two to eventually find each other.

A Psychic’s Prediction: “You’re Going to Marry Donnie Wahlberg”

McCarthy’s story of how she and Wahlberg became a couple began long before their first date. While hosting her talk show on VH1, McCarthy had a guest psychic who predicted her future in an unexpected way. “I asked the psychic, ‘Am I going to marry Donnie Wahlberg?'” McCarthy recalled. The response? A confident “Yes.”

Afterward, McCarthy sought the advice of an astrologer, who mirrored the psychic’s prediction. The astrologer not only told her that she would marry Wahlberg but also forecasted their engagement and wedding month. As it turned out, the predictions proved to be accurate, as McCarthy and Wahlberg got engaged and married within the time frame the psychic had suggested.

Five Key Traits That “Sealed the Deal”

While their relationship may have been guided by fate, McCarthy credits Wahlberg’s unique qualities for making him “the one.” In the interview, she shared the five traits that won her over and made her certain he was the man she wanted to spend the rest of her life with.

“Besides his cute butt,” McCarthy said, “what sealed the deal was that he was a man that knows how to have a conversation, funny, smart, and listens.” These qualities—communication, humor, intelligence, and attentiveness—formed the foundation of their strong relationship, which continues to thrive today.

A Tradition of Love: Renewing Their Vows Every Year

In addition to the early signs that their love was meant to be, McCarthy and Wahlberg have maintained a unique and heartwarming tradition to celebrate their bond. Every year since their marriage, the couple has renewed their vows—a tradition that Wahlberg started as a surprise during their first year of marriage.

“I decided the first year to do it as a surprise, and I thought it would be fun… good and something she wouldn’t expect,” Wahlberg explained. “When we did it, it was so powerful and so emotional for us that then I decided we should do it every year. The thing was, I didn’t always let her know about it, so I spent nine years surprising her.”

For their 10th wedding anniversary, the couple decided to celebrate this meaningful tradition together, renewing their vows at the same place where they were married. McCarthy described the experience as “a reboot,” comparing it to upgrading a phone to get better results. “To be able to do it again with what we know now and 10 years under our belt… it’s really a profound thing to do,” McCarthy said.

A Marriage Built on Honesty, Vulnerability, and Humor

Both McCarthy and Wahlberg have emphasized that their relationship is grounded in honesty and vulnerability. Wahlberg explained that renewing their vows each year has allowed them to stay connected and reaffirm their commitment to one another in a deeply meaningful way.

“People all have different opinions about renewing vows. I would say for us, it’s a magical thing, and it’s been wonderful to do it,” he said. “If it’s not for everyone, it’s not for everyone, but I would recommend trying it to anyone.”

A Busy and Successful Partnership

While their love for one another continues to grow, both McCarthy and Wahlberg have thriving careers. McCarthy is currently a judge on The Masked Singer alongside Ken Jeong, Robin Thicke, and Rita Ora. At the iHeartRadio Music Awards, she also offered insight into her role on the hit singing competition show, where she is part of the dynamic panel that has captivated audiences for 13 seasons.

Wahlberg, meanwhile, continues his successful career with his role in Blue Bloods and is also actively involved with his band, New Kids on the Block. Despite their busy schedules, the couple makes time for each other, keeping their connection strong through shared experiences and traditions like their annual vow renewals.

Conclusion: A Love Written in the Stars

From psychic predictions to annual vow renewals, Jenny McCarthy and Donnie Wahlberg’s love story is a testament to the power of fate, shared values, and mutual respect. As McCarthy aptly put it, their relationship was “written in the stars,” and over the years, their love has only grown stronger. With a marriage built on humor, communication, and unwavering commitment, McCarthy and Wahlberg continue to inspire fans and prove that sometimes, love really is destined.